\nYour relationship patterns are a direct reflection of your relationship to yourself. If you are abundantly self loving, you\u2019re more likely to attract kind and\u00a0 loving people to your life. If your boundaries are strong, you will attract respect. On the flip side, if you are riddled with insecurities, you\u2019ll likely attract people who criticise you and see your flaws unkindly.<\/p>\n
A sign that you might have unresolved issues that are affecting your relationships is when you notice that \u201cI keep having the same relationship problems\u201d again and again, even with different partners.<\/p>\n
I invite you to take this as a sign that would benefit from clearing your emotional patterns. Taking time to work with your issues before you step back into dating will be the best possible investment in your relationship future.<\/p>\n
2. Become your own source of love<\/strong> So many relationships start when two people are looking to fill their cup of love with each other – and seeing each other as the source of love.<\/p>\n I invite you into the habit of filling yourself from the inside transforms your life. Your heart is a steady fountain of love – once you tap into you have more love than you could ever need – and plenty to share with the person you meet!<\/p>\n 3. Be responsible for your feelings<\/strong> Unfortunately, when you\u2019re not taking full responsibility\u00a0 for yourself, it\u2019s easy to blame and project your emotional states on external factors including your partner – or to hope that your partner will rescue you from feeling them at all.<\/p>\n I invite you to be loving and present with your emotions as and when they come up. When you slow down and sit with how you feel, you can investigate where your emotion comes from, and allow it to transform. Often times it\u2019s an old feeling that\u2019s been triggered, and getting to the bottom of it will help you take responsibility for your reactions to others.<\/p>\n
\nThis is perhaps the MOST important key for a conscious relationship that I can share with you. If you can crack this, you have done more to create happy, fulfilled relationships than most people on this planet!<\/p>\n
\nLet\u2019s face it – painful and uncomfortable emotions such as anger, guilt and shame are a part of life, even when you\u2019re in the most beautiful conscious and connected relationship.<\/p>\n
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